Taking the Space for Life

San Juan Del Sur Nicaragua

View from the terrace, Yajure Hotel -- San Juan Del Sur, Nicaragua

I played with a crab. I made friends with the lady at the market. I cooked an amazing dinner of steak and potatoes. I spent hours just contemplating my life, and what I want to make of it. I started journaling with a pen and paper for the first time in ages. I fell in love with a stunning Swedish girl who makes my heart shake. We danced on the beach at night and swam in the water, playing with the waves. I battled with my heart and the woman I still love from the last relationship that ended in bittersweet tears.

There is nothing sweeter than this moment — when I decide that to be true. Nothing sweeter than living a life of happiness, love, truth, adventure. That’s a decision I make every day to look at this life a certain way. Continue Reading →

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The Art of Living Dangerously

Art of Living Dangerously - San Salvador

Cruising on the bus through San Salvador, El Salvador, at sunrise -- one of the world's most dangerous cities.

In the seven weeks I’ve been here in Central America I’ve gotten into some extremely interesting, bizarre and entertaining situations. To me ‘living dangerously’ is just a way of life I’ve followed as long as I can remember — it means not being afraid to take calculated risks, and pushing myself out of my comfort zones to have a more full experience of this existence.     

This is the only way I really know how to live, and it’s definitely not for everyone — but it’s so worth it! Some life-shifting experiences I’ve had pushing the edges thus far: I’ve made really great friends and met some of the most amazing people in the world; I’ve spent long nights walking the streets in search of adventure; I’ve stayed up dancing with friends until sunrise at least a dozen times; I’ve been attacked by a man with a broom after refusing to burn my boots in the fire (funny story!); I’ve eaten the most delicious street food ever, drank awesome local moon shine and had occasion to sample some fine medicinal herbs with the locals ;). Aside from a few bruises still from a near-death incident at Lago Atitlán I’ve been lucky to emerge from all my adventures none the worse for wear, and feeling stronger and better than ever.

All this is due to a specific approach to risk-taking I’ve developed that enables me to ride the edges without falling off the deep end for good — living dangerously is an art! Here then are a few pointers for a life of epic adventure and fun too, no matter where you are in your life…. 

Disclaimer: I’m not a physician or a counselor or have any kind of license for giving advice, so consult someone who does before doing anything risky, and don’t take anything as I say as a personal recommendation for you. Please don’t ever put yourself in unnecessary risk without understanding fully what you’re getting yourself into, and the potential consequences, and always seek professional advice.  Continue Reading →

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Finally Living the Dream (The One Little Question That Changes Everything)

El Tunco Beach El Salvador

View from the deck at 'La Guitarra Hotel' - El Tunco Beach, El Salvador - Click image to enlarge

Today I woke up to the sounds of soft Latin music playing over the crashing waves just a few meters from my room. After a fresh pressed vegetable juice and breakfast I came to the cafe for an Americano and some work. Right now sitting on the cafe balcony overlooking the ocean, rumbling thunder and storm clouds gather for a good afternoon rain (it’s a good thing since everything’s pretty dusty around here — the streets could use a good bath).

For a good 3-4 years I’ve been waiting for this time — working hard to get to the point where I could finally live this dream. And, well, here it is now… with just a few caveats. I’ll try to give you a better picture of what I’m up to here, living and working from wherever I happen to be in Central America — currently El Tunco beach, El Salvador.

I run my business from out here (developing interactive media projects and websites for conscious companies) with the help of a good support team back home. I’m also a transformative business consultant, and apparently a writer too — along with playing my beloved ukulele, this writing and sharing is my great creative joy.

It is, in truth, a very good lifestyle, with more continuous enjoyment overall than I’ve experienced in years. But I’m not about gloating or painting a glossy picture here — to be fair, there are definitely downsides to this life. For instance, the constant issue of security… Continue Reading →

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