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Tara Sophia Mohr: On Being a Cauldron for the Feast of Light

tara sophia mohrIn my work over the past year or so I’ve become enamored with the muse, ‘flow’ and the creative process. In that place where spirit moves directly through me — merging somehow with my essence and guiding the work — is where the greatest stuff is born.

I was moved when I perceived this essence in the poetry work of Tara Sophia Mohr. There’s an ineffable deliciousness in the writing that can only be driven by such grace. Truth. Soft and gentle, yet fiercely alive. I’ve never been a big fan of poetry, but this I can relate to — I was moved to tears just a few poems in to her newly released book, Your Other Names: Poems for Wise Living.

In my quest to unearth the principles of this work I’ve decided to create an occasional interview series to learn from the ‘creative alchemists,’ and perhaps also inspire you in your own work. This is the first…

In one of your poems you write, “Don’t forget your true name: strong cauldron for the feast of light.” What is it you’re really getting at…? Continue Reading →

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The Warrior’s Path of the Broken Heart: Mysterious, F*cking Fierce, Gwen Bell

Gwen Bell is a Mystery.

gwenOn one hand, I see her as the personification of Fierce Wisdom. Fiercely alive, dancing the razor’s edge, cutting through B.S., always testing and pushing the edges of her gift.

On the other hand she defies all categorization, landing somewhere in the mysterious realm of Crazy Wisdom. In the tension of this balance there emerges the elements of true genius.

I wrote to her recently to try and get some clarity on my life situation, because I knew she could understand the pain I was going through in the way she only could.

Gwen’s newest project is Fucking Fierce: The Digital Intensive.

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Dearest Gwen,

My whole reason to exist came into real question with the unexpected ending of a nearly 3-year relationship recently. The circumstances surrounding the break-up were especially hard, and I was left violently mad and heart-broken, with the ground pulled out from beneath me….

You know I Iove pushing the edges, but I was shocked at how hard this all hit me. Now I’m a bit despondent as I try and redefine myself and my purpose, and carve new meaning for this life. Part of me craves this uber-simplified life where I go and hide with almost no worldly engagement whatsoever, and the other part of me demands an epic life of adventure and bigness.

Much of the time it feels like I’m just in an epic battle with myself, and rectifying the parts of me that are both human and other worldy. So I’m calling on you for some advice. I know you understand my predicament like only very few people could.

Sending love and gratitude,

Satya

Here are my questions…

1. Do you have any thoughts or advice on all this?

Thoughts that came up as I read were compassion/understanding: yes, I know what that feeling is like to – to have my heart broken, to have the ground pulled out from under my feet.

I know what it feels like to resist that.

I am reminded of something Chogyam Trungpa said: The bad news is you’re falling through the air, nothing to hold on to, no parachute. The good news is there’s no ground.

It is oddly comforting, to know both that we’re falling and that there’s no ground. And I think the real challenge for all of us is to stay open knowing both elements are true – no parachute…but also…no ground. (Pema Chodron has a lot to say about staying openhearted in this groundless state. It’s not necessarily comforting, but it is honest.)

2. In your contribution for Edge Flow you mention the warrior’s path of a broken heart — what does that really mean to you?

It really means that. To stay open towards myself and others when I’d rather close down. I found myself in a situation recently where someone who seemed to be on drugs wanted to shake my hand. He seemed a stranger, his breath smelled like alcohol, and I was holding my wallet in my left hand. I hesitated – I honestly didn’t want to shake his hand. Then, I leaned in instead of backing away. I shook his hand and he said, “you know, you have the most beautiful eyes.” And it really touched me. And then we both went on our way.

3. What do you believe is your real reason for existence, and how do you get to this?

I believe less in “real reason for existence” and more in “purpose to discover.” I think I have to discover my purpose – through working – and do it with all my might. I think being fucking fierce with my life is staying open, staying tender, when I am unsure, unstable or insecure about myself. To keep working and offering my heart even when I’d rather hide out under the covers.
(Or, to hide and really hide, like a chinchilla, so I can get back out there again.)

4. Why should I keep going, or not?

An unanswerable question. But if you’re seriously thinking about this in more of a “why should I go on” way, the best advice I can give is that you get better – more professional advice – than mine. I’m not qualified to help beyond sharing my own experience. I hear – and feel – you.

5. Why do you think it seems like so many people are going through existential crises at the moment? (velocity…?)

I’m not sure I see it in the same way. I am not currently going through an existential crisis but sometimes we think the world is going through what we’re going through. Like, you buy a red car and suddenly all you see on the road is red cars?

Be well, Satya.

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Gwen Bell shares her daily digital discoveries at gwenbell.com. She also writes these letters: http://letterly.net/gwenbell/

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Shortly after writing to Gwen I went to Portland for Chris’s summit, jumped out of a plane, and experienced an overflow of love like I’ve never quite felt before amidst a few hundred of the world’s most remarkable people. As a result of all this I found my heart exploding open, and my reality expanding to a new level of flow (more about all that here).

I can truly say now, without a doubt, the path of the broken heart is the way of a truly great life. But this is not an easy path.

At some point in the free fall you reach maximum speed — terminal velocity — and the sensation of falling is replaced by something much different. Before this, you have to face the fact that the parachute might not open. This is the warrior’s path of fierce wisdom.

The Art of Epic Flow ebook launches this week — by the Grace. Join the Letter to get it free, before the price goes up. And pls Retweet and share this with your gang… Thank you.

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Pushing the Edges: Venessa Miemis on Facebook, Technobuddhism and Emerging Collective Intelligence

Venessa Miemis flows deftly between worlds of evolving media, consciousness, technology and the web, merging them into something beautiful. I never fail to be blown away by her unique meld of staggering intelligence, deep understanding and real soul.

So happy to be joined with Venessa today…

What’s the best thing that’s happened to you so far this year?

a lot of good things have happened already this year. i just finished my graduate program (MA in Media Studies) at The New School, so that is awesome. i launched a new project, The Future of Facebook, and we’ve already been fully funded on Kickstarter. i’m being flown to Mumbai, India, and then Sydney and Melbourne, Australia for speaking events in June. i’ve never been to those places, so i’m super stoked for that. i’m also helping organize a big conference around peer-to-peer technology and social innovation called Contact, which will be held in NYC this october. besides all that, i have a handful of other projects and ideas still in incubation, so life is very exciting right now.

You mentioned, “the transition to a new understanding of humanity is already happening, and for some, has already happened” — can you talk about this transition?

i think there’s some kind of cyber-spiritual awakening underway. or maybe call it technobuddhism. basically, i think people are starting to wake up to their true nature and potential, and i see that being aided by the web, and the relationships we’re able to forge via social media. i think the rate at which we are able to find people who resonate with us is accelerating, and that empowers us to manifest ideas and take collective action.

What can we do to help bump this along, and maybe also not be left behind?

find your tribe and yourself.

Where have you been able to find the net to catch you as you plunge into this other side?

As Thich Nhat Hahn put it, “The next Buddha will be a Sangha,” meaning a community of people with a shared story and shared purpose. The net is all around us, if we choose to be a part of it.

What is the story your heart is bursting to have told?

i tell it every day by living a life characterized by growth and transformation, and encouraging others to find their passion and inspiration.

Why does this matter?

well… i’ve found that life is vastly better when infused with meaning and purpose.

If you could have anything in the world, or any condition, what would it be?

i would like there to be a free global communication infrastructure, so every human on the planet could have access to each other and the wealth of knowledge and information that is out there, allowing people to have the capacity to empower themselves in every way.

Any obstacles you’ve encountered to transforming the inspiration in your mind and soul into manifestation in physical world? How you were able to overcome these…?

i feel like i fail constantly. but i just keep pushing.

What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever done?

found the ability to believe in myself.

Why did you feel the imperative to create the Future of Facebook project?

well, it’s not even really about facebook. facebook is the entry point to the conversation, but it’s really about people, about connecting, about creating meaningful relationships and “thick value” together. it’s about asking some aspirational questions. facebook has over 600 million people on it. so it’s like “ok. we’re all here. now what do we do?” we haven’t even scratched the surface yet of what it really means to leverage collective intelligence and create positive change in our own lives or in the world around us.

What do you see for FB’s future – how long do you reckon until Facebook goes the way of myspace or every other previously hot social network, or will they adapt?

i think facebook has already had a big impact on our perceptions about openness and information sharing, even among friends. regardless of what happens to facebook in the future, that behavioral and cultural shift has already been triggered. i think as people see how sharing and collaboration enriches life and makes achieving goals easier, they will not go back to the ‘lone hero’ mentality.

What’s your favorite part about pushing the edges in your life and work?

at the end of the day, we’re all just people. but when you overcome your fear and put yourself and your work out there, embrace your inner artist, you create beauty that influences and inspires others in a way that is so much bigger than yourself and extends further than you could have imagined. that to me is very powerful.

Looking ahead this year, what are you looking forward to above all?

i’m actually very much looking forward to taking a roadtrip out west with my loving and supportive husband, and just enjoying some time being present with him and off the grid.

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Venessa on Twitter: storyteller, artist, media producer; researching emerging tech trends; scouting the edge of innovation & consciousness. more: http://emergentbydesign.com/about
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This interview is one in a series connected to the Edge Flow project. Sign up for my capturing Epic Flow email series to be notified of the next interview (and pay attention, I’m planning to give away my Art of Epic Flow ebook for 48 hours to subscribers soon).

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